To enable the Mysite link follow the below steps :
- Go to the Central Administration Web Page
- Click on the link for Shared Services Administration
- If you have more than one Shared Service Provider (SSP), select the one that is running the "My Sites" functionality
- Under "User Profiles and My Sites", click "Personalization Services Permissions"
- Click Add Users/groups
- Add the name of the user who was not able to see the "Mysite" link and provided them with "Personal site" and "Personal feature " permission .